Exclusive: How much do you really trust your partner?
July 14, 2014 | Events
Infidelity is not unique to men or women. In the past, the stereotypical cheating husband running around with a younger woman was the norm. As society has changed, so has infidelity.
The normal roles and boundaries that existed for men and women have shifted and the sexes are more equal now than ever before.
Along with that shift in roles has come a noticeable increase in the number of women initiating adulterous relationships, infidelity and one night stands. Women have stepped into positions of power everywhere in society and with that change comes an increase in the number of women cheating on their husbands.
If you suspect your spouse is unfaithful, we can help you get the facts.
Common circumstances that reinforces the lies.
Aside from the obvious hope that the unfaithful spouse can keep the affair hidden, cheaters likely have one of the following sets of circumstances that reinforces the lies.
Perhaps they are involved with someone else that they want to be with all the time and form a new life with that person, but for some reason, now is not the right time or they have not managed to lock in that new relationship, so they wait.
Telling you the truth, although an inevitability, would only cause them problems that they need not experience, or they are still unsure that the other person is totally committed to building a life with them, so they want to keep you around as a backup.
A second common set of circumstances that lead cheaters to lie is that they do not want to end their relationship with you, but they want to have that additional relationship with someone else that gives them some emotional fulfilment that they are not getting at home. Many a cheating husband or cheating wife say that they are too ashamed to admit what they did, no matter what the circumstances.
Regardless of what’s behind the lie, most cheating spouses know how much it would hurt you if you found out. They know what it will do to you and they still go forward with the affair, but by trying to keep it a secret, they are also trying to protect you from the pain and suffering that would surely come if their betrayal is discovered.
You need to know the truth and have proof before anything else can move forward. With unanswered questions and potential lies surrounding you, you cannot possibly make the right decisions and heal yourself. Get the truth before you start making important, life changing decisions.
We help get the facts so that you can make informed decisions.
If you feel that you are being cheated on, the odds are, you are correct. You don't, however; want to make a life changing decision without knowing for sure.
We can help you answer the “who”, the “how” and the “when”. It’s going to be you that’s able to answer the why.
Call us, and we will take the time to discuss your situation with you. We know the signs, and look forward to helping you decide if hiring an investigator is the best option for you.
It is important for everyone to understand that surveillance is both legal and ethical. Our firm, like the vast majority of private investigators, will only conduct surveillance for a legitimate purpose and in a legal manner.
We do not zoom inside of people’s private residences, nor do we trespass on private property, climb up drain pipes and the like, just to accommodate a client. We understand that surveillance has a purpose and that we have a social responsibility to perform our surveillance within the boundaries of the law and good ethical practices.
These practices are important to our firm and to our clients who want us to represent them in a responsible manner. We will not work for you if you have a restraining order against you.
Contact us or call to discuss now on 0800747633.
